Just like a scene from a romantic movie I noticed him from across the room, as he seemingly moved in slow motion making his way thru the crowd and toward the area of the club where I was standing. His eyes were mesmerizing. He was strikingly beautiful with classic “boy next door” looks. He could hands down give any male runway model a run for their money. I wanted him, and I wanted him to want me. I knew I wouldn’t forgive myself if I left the club without accomplishing that.

As fate would have it his walk stopped right next to me and he positioned himself side by side with me to watch the strip show everyone was there to see. I didn’t need another sign, that was enough. I taped his shoulder, reached out my hand to shake his, leaned over into his ear and said “Hi I’m Toy. I had to introduce myself because you look JUST like my next boyfriend.”…He instantly smiled one of the biggest, warmest smiles I had seen in a while. He laughed and replied “Is that so?”……….I was in!

We conversed for the next 30min as if there was no one else in the club but us. He was shy and he blushed a lot as I showered him with every slick line I had learned over my years as a male hunter. It was a perfect meet and he was perfect boyfriend material. I actually had the innate feeling that I already knew him and that comfort level made everything that much easier. It was only when one of the strippers approached us to give him a hug that a distinct vision popped in my head….I did already know him! The vision was a porn scene I had jacked off to from one of my favorite porn sites featuring exclusively raw porn! My heart dropped.

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The 2012 Year has officially begun and its no longer new. MLK weekend marked the first official Holiday of the year and thus marking the year for LGBT Pride And Circuit parties for the African American set. Atlanta hosted its ‘Unofficial Mini Winter Pride 2012′ weekend with a lack luster of fanfare and too many events to count which lead to mass confusion on the part of the patrons. Which brings me to the reason for this post.

During major Black Gay Pride/Circuit Events club promoters in major cities, Atlanta, D.C. Detroit, Los Angeles, Houston scramble for various club locations throughout the city and begin booking a list of celebrities from musical acts to B-list reality stars. My question to the those that hold our fun in their hands is WHY? Why are club/promoters spending thousands of dollars on acts who will be in their clubs for 20 minutes, won’t give us a concert, won’t allow us to take pics of them, won’t sign our favorite cds, posters, t-shirts, etc. showing our support of them? I will tell you why, its because of the all mighty dollar or so they think. If a club promoter gets lucky enough to book a major act it means they can charge outrageous prices at the door and we will line up like solder army ants waiting to meet our favorite queen of entertainment; keeping in mind that we will most likely get no showcasing of the artists talents, if they even have any.

In the past, clubs/promoters like Traxx Atlanta, Xtreme Entertainment, Lion’s Den and Wassup N Atl have booked major acts like Fantasia, Lil Kim, Nicki Minaj, Amber Rose, Evey Real House Of Atlanta with a booking agent and Dondria and we did what we do best, lined up to pay our fee to get a view from the back of the room and witness their 5 minutes of stage time. The only ones who seem to benefit from this is the actual promoter themselves and their best friends. They at the least get their pics taken with said artist to post on facebook and get bragging rights for the next 2 months until the next event. While you the lonely soul who stands in line for hours get NADA… I take that back, at least you were in the building.

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Recently a teenager in London was made homeless because his parents discovered “incriminating” gay content on his Facebook page. He was kicked out of the house without notice and his whereabouts are currently unknown. London’s increasing subculture of extreme homophobia may also carry some of the blame here. One of his friends who spoke to Privacy International was concerned that the young man had spun into depression. He had no money – not even a change of clothes.

The young man, we are now calling ‘David’ did not place the offending material on his Facebook profile – someone else did. He never mentioned anywhere on his profile that he was gay, and was not openly involved in any online gay groups. For David, living in a closed-minded community and with homophobic parents, such revelations would be disastrous.

But if David didn’t place that material on his profile, who did?

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Remember back in the day when Piedmont Park was the place to go after the sun had set and the freaks came out? Child don’t act like you all don’t remember those days or at least heard about them. I had friends to tell me about what used to go in the parks after dark; I was always to scared to participate in those antics myself. Well eventually, the neighborhood would change and the new residents of the neighborhood got tired of looking out of their window and seeing hot man on man action taking place on the sprawling lawns. The police were called in to clean up the place and those freaks were either arrested or moved on to new locations.

The same thing is now happening in the Florida’s play ground for the retired, wealthy, Palm Beach. The Sheriff’s Department arrested over more than 600 men who were allegedly looking for sex in public parks throughout the region. Now here is the gag, of the hundreds arrested only four were actually found “with their pants down.”  The other 596 horny guys were propositioned and arrested by one of the two sexy undercover officers involved in the operation, Detectives Peter Lazar and Van Garner.

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While sister Khloe was at home crying her eyes out and wondering if she really is a Kardashian her sister Kim was out and about getting her hair did. I guess with the stress of being a home wrecking whore for sleeping with Kanye West by Amber Rose and finding out your sister probably isn’t your sister but a red headed step child, getting your hair done is like therapy.